QS: Great post on DFM's thread. I found it very insightful as my H is in the same exact place as your W! Hell-Bent, Puppy calls it. Allen called it Prowling. I called it Trolling.
It's a terrible place to be at, that's for sure...knowing your spouse is looking for anyone but you.
Anyway, I had quite the epiphany reading that post, for better or worse! lol