Hang in there FFH. Getting the refi done will be great! I'm going to see my mortgage broker tonight to figure out my options. You will miss your S sometimes, but you will also have him a lot, right? The time away from both of them will also be good, just don't spend too much of it alone, obsessing about what else you could have done. This is not your fault. Find some friends to go out with or just hang out with. My neighbors have been great! I've spent a lot of time BS'ing with them and am planning to fish with one of the guys.
You will be fine and the separation might clear W's mind. Now go out there and talk to some women big guy!!!!!!!
