H in MLC and living with OW. Exposed - now what?

[MarieC]

Thanks for writing, Red. I hope you're hanging in there. Your story really touched me because we live in such similar worlds and have similarities in our stories.

There's not much I can really *do,* though, is there? Or am I missing something?

I can't DB a guy who's GONE - living with a skank - or can I?

I feel so passive, just waiting for the day when we see each other in divorce court, but I think that being in contact with him not only hurts me but supports the affair as he goes on and on about how "interesting" our conversations are when he sees me (well, YEAH - he's sleeping with a beer waitress who has no education!) and makes him think I'm ok so he doesn't need to feel bad/guilty/ashamed of what he's done.

Anything you know of (besides GAL and working on me) I can do, other than pray he wakes up?