Oh, I guess what you mean is to not allow him in the house at all, ever, as you wrote a few posts up. Well he is not living here, like Seeing Red. But you are right the thing of seeing S in my home is problematic. I have to get my courage up and see that lawyer. I spoke with a woman tonight who just went to mediation to petition for full custody of her daughter. She is going to help support me through this and answer questions for me.
