Thanks for your reply - they really got my attention.
When I was separated from my H, for 3 mths, I was happy most of the time. From that I know I can be happy without him. And I know it would be easier for me to leave than stay. But I'm choosing the later because I feel it is my duty to help my H through this period of his life and i think this is the "bad times" referred to in the marriae vow. But I am puttting a time limit to my sacrifice, whether he has got over OW by then or not. It is a time limit for my own benefit. I know by then I would be able to say to myself i've done all I can to save my M and would never look back with nay regret or remorse.
M 39 H 41 T9 M6 EA found Dec 09 Separated Apr to Jun 10 Currently in house separation
