It sounds like you are in control of yourself sir... INTEL is very useful and even liberating if you can detach from it all...

People who rush into thinks like your wife is doing just make a mess...

It's like driving man.. you go to fast your car goes out of control and you are roadkill all over the freeway...

She's pushing and desperate because she's in pain from the marriage falling apart and wants to escape it all... very very pathetic

Don't bother trying to show her motehr she's lying to her dude, it won't help... Her mother's not educated enough to do what she should have been doing all along