thanks allenA.

unfortunately, cell phone bill doesn't tell me what the incoming numbers are. it only tells me what numbers he's been calling.

i've only noticed that there are 1 or 2 incoming calls between 1:30 pm - 4 pm every once in a while that lasts a minute or so. never long phone calls. i can't tell if they are from the same person. any numbers he does call that looks suspicious, i have checked out (via reverse lookup). he's clean there.

my suspicion is that someone is calling simply to say i parked my car outside your workplace, come on out and let's go do it in the backseat of my car. it doesn't take that long to say those words.

he doesn't get any text messages nor does he text anybody.

i have been known to be looking for signs of an A. i have never found one. i let my imagination run wild with scenarios (as seen above).

it's like if i knew he was having an A, then that's a dealbreaker for me and it would make it so easy to detach and drop the rope.

in reality, i need to drop the rope regardless. i really am trying. i don't let this get in the way of my GAL activites. thanks for listening, allena.