I have been thinking, I believe she is still here only because of the kids and the fact she cannot afford to leave. She made reference in her journal that she would like us to split amicably, the last split was ugly and I fought her tooth and nail in court and won full custody. She is scared to go through that again, I think that is why we did not have the talk the other night. She is afraid of my reaction. Reading her journal should I bring up, that I will be amicable and let her go? Do I change the playing field put the ball in her court? Or is it better to let her stew be miserable and feel like I am trapping her in this house. Something doesn't feel right.
I guess I am a little worried about giving the speech of letting you go. She can't afford it? And right now I can't really afford to help her either? Robx where r u I need a slap in the face. Its initiating a R talk if I do bring up the fact that I know your unhappy and should leave.
