As for "working on one's sexuality", it would seem to assume that any woman who "works on her sexuality" is guaranteed to succeed. Perhaps not any more than I could "work on my homosexuality and start liking men". Not likely.
And frankly, I'm at a point where I'm not really interested in someone who is having sex as a chore. I've kind of had my life fill of that already. I would love to be with a woman who was interested in having an orgasm, let alone actually succeeding in having one. Never experienced either.
And those expectations are kind of unfair to my wife. Which gets into issues we haven't been able to resolve between the two of us. But we've decided not to let that affect everything else.
