1. We're not on the best terms lately I don't really want to see her and she probably feels the same way. It'll be tough to pretend we're a family in front of all the people.
2. She'll want to invite some people that I resent since they supported her in her decision. And for them to attend my D's b.day just doesn't sit right since they took part in destroying her family.
I may suggest to her doing the party at her school for the kids only, favor bags, cake cutting and a few balloons and stbxw and I can be there for 15mins or so for the cake cutting. She also said she thinks it's best to celebrate separately and on top of that refused to split the weekend to spend time with her. So not sure how to pitch the idea without sounding like I'm pleading with her?
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
