said I can't give him what he needs ---------------------------------- honey, you are not separating fast enough, he sounds selfish and someone who doesn't have the spine to work on a M with all his heart, he only thinks of himself and his needs, he can go fly a kite, you don't need such a looser.
About the L, as if! he has no right to tell you what to do, you can get screwed up big time if you don't consult at least ONE time, I didnt' retain a L, our D was mutual to avoid court costs, but I still had 2 consultations, one to see that I was asking what I should've, and a last one to check all the paperwork. So forget him and get a L to review the terms of D, i'm glad I did, it saved me big time and my L brought up issues I hadn't even began to think about.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.