quick advice, get everything in writing! I had a noncontested D, in my state we were able to sign a separation agreement and we got everything down... I made him pay for the D, I told him for the get go 'you want this you pay for it'..I do agree though, that the more time passes the less generous they become. In time, hickups will come up about visitation with the children, so make sure you take everthing in account, holidays, bdays, any thing else, my ex was mostly easy going but when he shaked up with this crazy woman boy did all the estipulations came in handy!
It is a long road, you will feel it all coming down on you like a ton of bricks for a long time to come... expect them, embrace them and let them go, you will be stronger, you sound good and strong... fill your mind/time with good reads, i highly recommend 'the spiritual divorce' and 'healing without scars'.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
