Going straight forward...antlers 6th thread.

[antlers]

ant,
Do not respond to such hate-spewing, demonizing baiting.

Well, I've validated her feelings for 19 months already...I honestly haven't seen that it accomplished a single good thing regarding the way she feels about me.

That'a one looong cheeseless tunnel, friend.

Peace,

May have been, but I felt like it was necessary...maybe not for 19 months...but she walked on eggshells for a helluva long time. That's a hard way for someone to have to live. I wish it would have done some good between she and I...but it didn't. She seems to hate me as much now as at any time during the last 19 months.
I was told by the GAL that a trial would be worse for me, worse for her, and worse for the kids. My attorney contacted them about mediation...with the hopes that a trial could be avoided. No go. She wants to go the scortched earth litigation route...the members of the shattered family be damned! Especially the kids. They are so shattered and torn. It's a shame.
Anyway, gotta 'man-up' for the trial, since it's just around the corner.