A friend of mine said 'that sucks but hopefully in the future you can celebrate it together' - yeah like in 10 years when I wouldn't mind seeing STBXW with some scumbag.
Um, so is she with some scumbag now? If not, I kind of missed why you are so against a joint birthday party? It's not like you two can't be in the same room together...have I missed something? I know the BB mindset is let the WAS suffer, she wanted the breakup so now she can live it but I, personally, see this as about the child and what she wants. If DD wants a joint party what's the problem? Again, did I miss something somewhere or am I just too much of a marshmallow for the hardliners out there?
