See if you can get some guys to room with you in the house.. it will take a lot of the stress off you.

If she does find a guy for a fix she will end up miserable and hating herself and her choices just like she is now...

She thinks avoiding you will escape her pain but it won't... she may find some distractions short term but anyone willing to satisfy her childishness, all these girlfriends of hers included, will end up being a bitter dissappointment.

YOU want to be in a GOOD place and STAY there. For two reasons :

a. You own health and happiness
b. As an attractive place to return to for her

You don't have to TAKE her back.. but when she hits rock bottom and calls you up you can enjoy saying "no thanks"

Either way you want to be in a good place.

Look for a better job so you can buy the house, get some buddies to room with etc.

Last edited by Allen A; 07/22/10 01:23 AM.