VV - this is a great post. I am hurting but don't want our bad R back. Either we work to make it better or he can go ahead and end it and I will embrace the new life with my DD. She will be devastated, but I will do my best to stay upbeat for her.
It helps to read all these stories and see people who succeeded and those who didn't succeed (with their M) but came out just fine in the end.
He: WAH Me: LBW Precious: DD
~ I'm grateful for every day I have to improve the way I relate.