Another side note:

Have you thought about renting out your house? getting a friend to move in with you? just finding a roommate on Craig's list?

I didn't want to lose my house...so I got two friends to move in with me. Now I can afford to keep the house and will have friends to hang out with on a daily basis.

M: 29, W: 28
Together 8 years, Married 1 (5/16/09)
Bomb (LYBNILWY)4/22/10
Affair discovered 5/3/10, began Jan/Feb 2010
Separated 5/22/10 - Present
Affair exposed 7/7/10
No children