R-Lay, I wish I could tell you this is the first time I have heard this type of story....... With that being said, I don't think you are stupid, this is all very new and if you wish to continue standing, you should. As for boundaries, you cannot fear this man, if he isn't giving you any child support, you CANNOT let him get away with that. You owe it to your kids to take him to court and MAKE him help support them. If he threatens you, have him arrested. I also live in KY. and I can tell you the laws have become much stricter for protecting spouses who fear this type of abuse and threats. Amanda's law was passed by the Legislature and the court system will garnashee his wages if he refuses to pay his child support. You must take steps to see these things happen or you will remain his doormat and continue to do what he pleases to you.
