No, unfortunately there's nothing you can say that will make her think that way. The best you can do is adopt two approaches:
1. Ignore anything from her unless it pertains to your kids or finances until the D is done.
2. If you really want to and I don't think it's a good idea at this point you can validate her VERY briefly "I'm sorry you feel that way" - but then she'll respond and then you'll want to respond and it goes no where.
Well, I've validated her feelings for 19 months already. While it may have been good for me, and I felt that it was appropriate to do that for her, especially with me having been the way that I was...I honestly haven't seen that it accomplished a single good thing regarding the way she feels about me.
The trial is scheduled for next Wednesday.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
