Yeah I'm going to have to tell her that I'm not willing to do the move thing in a piece meal way.

I also want to tell her somehow that she should reconsider the weekend split since I would like to spend the night before the night after with her in the future and from DD's perspective she'd want to see her mom/dad the next day. It's pretty insensitive of her to not want to at least let DD enjoy both of our company on her b.day weekend. Ugh, I just hate coming up with the correct wording.

A friend of mine said 'that sucks but hopefully in the future you can celebrate it together' - yeah like in 10 years when I wouldn't mind seeing STBXW with some scumbag.

Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again