I think you would be right in continuing to GAL and slowly get back into things. If the past pattern was to spend all of your time together, perhaps it would be best to use your fresh start to do things differently this time.
Best of luck to you!
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10