Puppy Advice

[pearlharbr]

There are women here who have turned their sitch around, me included. I decided I didn't want a man who would treat me with disrespect and sent him packing. No contact other than business matters. We don't have children either so that's not a reason BF came back. When I let him go and moved on he realized I was serious and that he blew it.

Several people I respect have given you sound advice, yet you still complain that there's nothing about/for women specifically. It seems to me that you're looking for someone to tell you exactly what to do to make your H see the error of his ways and come running home.

There are no guarantees. Some people save their Rs, some people don't. The successful DBer is someone who has recognized their faults and mistakes, works hard at improving her/himself and does things to make her/himself happy so that the next R is a good one.

Drop the rope (no, you really haven't) and stop worrying about why H does anything. Do the work on yourself and make yourself happy.