Exposed finally,,limbo land

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There were these two questions from above I was hoping for some clarification on:

wanted to know if our friend the agent hated her now also(assuming I told him of the A), I said, “no, he is just worried for us”. The other night when she had my sign ‘notice of service’ for D documents I asked why we had to rush it, she said,’ I’m tired of getting dirty looks from everyone, like I’m a slut, or a whore.’ I had no response. How do you guys read that?

Lastly, I am reading thru QS thread, and there was mention of taking down marriage pictures. I still have ours up in the house, do you suggest taking them down? And help me understand the reasons please?

She instigated all contact yesterday, mostly to coordinate drop-off and pickup of D8. But, when I was headed to the gym, W and D8 pulled into nieghborhood, and it was 9:20 pm, so I parked quick to say goodnight to D8. She was crying about an abrasion she got at one of her friends, I comforted her and said goodnight in W's foyer. Then I looked at wife as was going out the door and simply said 'bye'. Then sent TM to let her know if D8 asked for me or needed anything to let me know. Short and nothing about W.