Hmmm....sent the email....no response yet. I know it's only been about 45 min. but H usually responds right away on his Blackberry or laptop. I'm not panicking, I just realized I didn't think of a response if he says No or what to do if he doesn't respond at all...

It will answer my last question before continuing in Confront mode that's for sure. It's definite proof that he does not plan on working on the marriage even though he has said so in the past. I guess my response is.... nothing???