About the furniture stuff...don't know if I want to pack and move things little by little. She should just come one day with the movers and take whatever she's asking for.
I wouldn't lift a finger. Take this from a man who foolishly did in the beginning - get a truck, move her out, move her in, hang pictures, mirrors, shelves, etc.
Everything of hers, whether hers outright or stuff that was "ours" that became hers when we divided possessions is piled in the basement. Has been for a year. Getting moldy, probably. Not my problem.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
