Just found out she already filed

[newmama]

I guess I'm not happy that she doesn't want to split the weekend and give her two b.days since I wasn't planning to do anything major like inviting people over. I was hoping she'd do that anyway but if not it'll be a big disappointment for DD.

About the furniture stuff...don't know if I want to pack and move things little by little. She should just come one day with the movers and take whatever she's asking for.

Well boo hoo- you aren't happy with the divorce but that is happening so she could at least compromise a little-- for your DD's B-Day! I mean make an exception, you know?

And her remark about "I'll see what I can do about moving the stuff by August" is just plain snotty and bratty.

I really think you could reply with your suggestion of using the movers to come one day. It's your house now and it is rude of her to leave her stuff there, you know?