I am figuring out that I don’t need to answer the question of whether or not my M is going to make it in order to pursue what “I want” out of life. I need to give myself permission to pursue my dreams and move forward. If at some point in the future my W wants to hop back on that train, it does not matter if that train has moved down the tracks little bit, the fact that it is moving again is what matters.
I know Grit has his views on "you get it"...This ^^^^ is IMO you getting it. This is your life Missher...yours to live, to enjoy, to grow. You really are in the driver seat! She may join you - she may not. Who knows..what is important and that you have highlighted...is that you are moving.
Like I said earlier...be her friend. Just a friend...let her get to know you on her pace on her schedule. You worry about you and the kids. She may want to become part of your life and it just may be right around the corner. You really never know.
Many have said/written about how long this process takes. You continue to do the "right" thing in my book, which means that whatever comes the way of the Missher Man will be good.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
