So here's her response...don't know why my heart sinks into my stomach whenever I read her emails. I guess it's the anticipation of more pain to come:


You will have to call the trash/water/gas to have your name put on the bills. I already sent you all the phone numbers back in April. I doubt they will disrupt your service but you should call to verify that.

I'll see what I can do about removing some of my furniture from the house in August. If you could box up and leave at the door the little items that I already sent you a list of so that I can pick them up during lunch, that would help faciliate the moving at least of the smaller items.

That's fine about her birthday. I think it would be best that we hold separate celebrations at this point. I'd rather not split the weekend but I would like to be able to talk to her and say happy birthday.

I'll meet you guys at the school on that date then.


I guess I'm not happy that she doesn't want to split the weekend and give her two b.days since I wasn't planning to do anything major like inviting people over. I was hoping she'd do that anyway but if not it'll be a big disappointment for DD.

About the furniture stuff...don't know if I want to pack and move things little by little. She should just come one day with the movers and take whatever she's asking for.


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again