Could use some help here. I'm working on setting boundaries for my H who is having a emotional and physical relationship with an OW. He has admitted it, said he is not sorry for doing it and continues to "date" her.

More of my story below:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2041440#Post2041440

It seems like every time I talk to him about our relationship I have a hard time staying calm and things don't go well. Is it OK to set a boundary in a letter instead?


M: 36
H: 37
Married: 13 years
Together: 17 years
No kids
Bomb Dropped: 6/10 (MLC, OW, ILYBNILWY)
He Moved Out: 8/10