Originally Posted By: Grace_O
[quote]As far as how long you wait,remeber this is the man you couldn't see yourself living without. What's that worth to you in terms of time?

I guess I'm struggling with the detachment idea. As I've mentioned before, I am trying to detach by thinking "He's just not that into you." but I feel like that is pushing me more away from the M than standing for it.

Another thought making me feel more like moving away than standing, is that my M as I knew it is over. That because of the changes that I need to make for me, and the process that H will go through, we will come out different on the other side which would provide a different M if it gets to that point.

Not too sure that I am communicating those thoughts appropriately, but any tips on how to adjust this?

Haha, and yes, Grace, I'm embracing my youngness in all of this! But I'm a good girl at heart so I'm not too worried about slipping up and making bad choices blush


M-28
H-29
D-16mo.
T-10Y
M-4Y
Bomb-11/09
Sep- 12/09