SR, yeah I doing fine in that department, took the boys to a concert in the park last Friday, working on the house, getting the boys into seperate rooms, painting, etc. I think I'm doing the right things.
Bill - yeah, the things that came out recently were actually not new - I've said some of them here, I've said some of them to friends - but it all seemed to snap into place when I said them to HER. Well, actually texted them to her. Yes, she does have issues. I guess the thing that threw me over the edge was, she gets into these converations where she wants to put the blame entirely on me. And yeah, I realized how long I've been not saying anything to, I guess, protect her. But I finally said "It wasn't me." to which she replied, "Oh, you think I have flaws that led us here" or something. She asked if she had flaws...
All the pieces came together for me I guess, and if she thought I was distant, I finally could articulate why that might have been.
But you're right, it's another turn of the kaleidoscope. Today's significant revelation is tomorrow's nonsence.
Anyway, I get what you're saying and I'm not on the hook. What I meant to say is that I'm not a believer in the reconciliation of my marriage at this point, that was all.
So - that all said - she called earlier today. Didn't answer but called back later and she wanted...
... to chat.
So I did. Enough drama for now. After awhile she said, well she's going to go as this coversation seemed to be going well and wanted to avoid it going awry.
I tend to wonder, is there anything I could say or do, anything that could happen, where she would NOT call me within a few days.
