Goodman, try not to get hung up on the list. This is NOT all about you. This is about your W having affairs and justifying them by reinventing the past and making you feel like it is 100% your fault so she can have the power and you can squirm. It takes two to make a M go to heck but it only takes one to abandon it and to NOT try and work on it.
I have no problem if the MC wants to talk about the list but it should NOT be all about you addressing the list. It should be your W addressing the list and how these things are germane. We can all come up with a list of complaints but these are justifications for leaving the M which is what most WAS do. They have NO intention of working on the M. They just want OUT! MC is just something that makes them look and feel good so they can say that they "tried everything".
Don't take on the burden 100%!
Me48 WAW46 M24 yrs S24 D21 D19 EA disc 6/09 2nd EA Fall 09 I move out 11/12/09 W and I switch 1/14/10 D Filed 3/17/10 W moves in with OM 6/8/10 D Final 6/21/10
