It seemed that you only wanted to go to appease me. I hope that is not the case and that you would truly like to see if we have a chance. Believe me, I am not ready to stay in a loveless marriage to someone who does not want me. I also do not want to be in a marriage where I am suspicious of behavior and don't feel safe, where secrets are kept and relationships pursued on the outside. Perhaps this weekend would be good for both of us to determine where we stand and where we go from here.
I'd leave out the part in red....it's not the right venue for those words. You'll be able to say them at the weekend or after, but not now. H will most likely see it as confrontational. Plus it puts emotion into the email.
Then add the part in blue.
When in doubt use the KISS method........Keep It Simple Stupid.
