Pretty sure its a MLC, now what?

[Truegritter]

So yes, I can spend more time with my friends and what not, but what about when it comes to wanting more than that? How long am I supposed to deny myself that more intense relationship and wait on H?

The short answer is when you do not qualify your choice with a BUT.

Lala this is a process and I could tell about what you will go through

BUT

That would spoil the fun.

Read my thread if you're curious.

You will know when you come to a point that moving forward may be without your H.

As I said earlier, you are just starting this process. It might be helpful to read again the stages of LBS links OP gave at the beginning of your thread.