Yeah, I hear you guys...but with a 'pout face' on. Which I guess only shows that I do need more work on myself as an individual. And me and my new friend are both very vulnerable as he finds himself in a very similar situation.

But your responses (and reading some of the recent posts on MHL's thread) bring up further questions. When looking more closely at who I am, I know that I am a relational person, I like doing life with others. So yes, I can spend more time with my friends and what not, but what about when it comes to wanting more than that? How long am I supposed to deny myself that more intense relationship and wait on H?