Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
As long as you are NEVER willing to give up, not matter WHAT she does . . .

And as long as you are happy with crumbs . . .

Then crumbs you shall get, and you will never get her back.

It's basic "push/pull" human dynamics, BTM. Be willing to take JUST ANYTHING, and JUST ANYTHING you will get. Let her go, and begin to move in the other direction, and you MIGHT just have a chance.

Puppy



Truth Puppy - At this point I am happy with HER crumbs. Seriously. And JUST ANYTHING feels good.

I still believe that with my WAW, I need to somehow balance being a friend etc with letting her go. Whenever I attempt to do otherwise, she sees it as me only wanting to be involved with her if it's on my terms - if there is sex involved etc. I somehow need to make her feel that I love, like and want her - all of her. But...magically at the same time let her feel like I have let her go as my wife. Only then will I have any hope of her wanting to be my wife.


50 years old.

Ontario, Canada

Loving Marriage #2 with the perfect person.