Training for a Marathon, Hoping for a Sprint

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Nothing really new here. I did let her know that I had told her oldest brother who had passed the info along to her other older brother. She thinks I am screwing with her life because I am mad, but that is not the case. I had seen the older brother a couple of times in the past couple of weeks and basically felt like I had lied to him. I came clean with him and asked him to pray for her and our marriage. Went to see attorney today and now have to decide when (if?) I want to proceed with D process.

We have already divided up expenses and are only communicating about finances, our son, and the dogs. It is still tough on my end, but the boundaries I have set are making it somewhat easier. Regarding my thread title, I think we can forget about the possibility of a sprint. Obviously not my preference, but I am now beginning what I think is going to be a very long process.

Went to my first small group meeting last night and am doing a much better job of GAL. My goal is to stay busy and do some of the things I have always wanted to do, but didn't because it didn't fit into our schedule.

Thanks for all of your help and I will check in again soon.

L4S