I actually have a good question that I can't find the answer to when reading the DB book.

She seems to be pursuing affection with me, initiating hugs and kisses, maybe once a day saying ILY. However, she has never, ever been a physical type of person to show affection. That's just who my W is. She hasn't ever liked backrubs, petting, whatever. She is just not a physical person at all, but I am. Is it wrong for me to *sometimes* give a hug or hold hands on my own initiative, if not done in excess (like 2 times a day)? She isn't disgusted by me, and I can tell when I am pressuring her, but does anyone have experience with this?

Last edited by john28; 07/21/10 07:18 PM.
----"Et tu, Brute?"----
me:28 W:24 S4
T:6
M:4
EA Exposed: 5/21/10
Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day)
NC w/ OM: 7/10/10
W moved out 8/21/10
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