Marie, have you gone to any Al-Anon meetings, or sought any other sort of support group?
I know you think I'm being passive and fatalistic here, but I really don't think there's anything you can do until he addresses his drinking problem, and -- as you probably know -- only HE can address that.
I'm the child of an alcoholic, and there's a ton of it that runs in my family. I know the damage it can do.
