Yes everyone thinks it's something different. Never really asked them point blank as far as I know both just said had problems like most marriages. Yes I have lied. I don't know what anyone really thinks!!

I believe most know that I didn't want this. As I even talked to my mother in law while visiting in Jan and this was before I busted the affair. She knows I love her daughter and she doesn't even know all the details as she told me W was very gauge. Thanks talk soon hope