I realize that I still love her the same if not more. I think it is a far more loving act to “lovingly detach”. I find myself loving my W in a more mature/ unselfish way today,…….loving her from a distance.
Man you got it.
You just got it...
You saw it last night when she responded to you.
She is expecting to be fighting your WILL which comes under the guise of love.
And you gave her compassion.
Understanding.
Let this be the expression of your love and watch it flourish in your R.
Originally Posted By: missher
I think I felt the gears of the process move a little bit yesterday…
Absof@ckinglutely my friend!
Now this feels good this thing you have discovered yes?
Let it sink in and be part of you.
No one can tell you about this.
You have to experience it to know it...
Good step for you.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
