"I am being a happy person. When we talk I am upbeat and excited. I am not longer looking for W to say ILY as affirmation"
Contradicting yourself here.
Point is you've got to know when to stop when it comes to communicating and thinking before acting. Talking too much gets you in trouble time and time again.
Are you still having sex? It's not all that hard to pick-up a box of condoms if you're uncomfortable with her getting pregnant now.
I am not quite sure how I am contradicting myself... I once thought I needed to hear the words ILY to know she did, members of this forum have opened my eyes to pick up on other indicators that she does.
We had sex twice (total). The time I mentioned and once again a couple days following. I learned after the second time that W has the expectation that if we had sex it were to be unprotected (something I am not agreeable to). I since then have not initiated anything and neither has she.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10
