"Other than 180 and a bit of GAL, what else can I do to increase our chances of reconciling? "

Rather than "a bit" of GAL, do A LOT of GAL. Start showing him (not telling) that he isn't the center of your universe. Now with the OW gone, it's your time to shine. Start dressing sexy and get yourself active without him.

You can include him in some things but not in all things. Instead of making him dinner automatically, make something for yourself and as an afterthought ask him if he wants some. What you do is get the focus off of his needs and onto yours.

YOu have to bring back a certain amount of self-respect in order to attract him back. Build yourself up and he'll follow.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER