There is a difference between moving on (new relationship) and moving forward.
The latter being the process we engage in here. That process focuses on the growth of the LBS.
When we come here we have had a severe blow to our emotions, self esteem, views on love and have questions about everything in our life.
Our advice has been to focus on you and yes not to enter into any other R while you are in this process.
Why?
It inhibits the work the LBS has to do and you will gloss over the issues that must be faced or you risk carrying them into other relationships.
Lola is good peroson to give you this advice we have been on here together running parallel paths. She got the same advice and decided to engage in a R.
So you have it from someone who has just gone through it.
It is detachment by distraction and it makes you lose the focus on where it should be...
On you.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
