Going straight forward...antlers 6th thread.

[ImprovedRomeo]

No, unfortunately there's nothing you can say that will make her think that way. The best you can do is adopt two approaches:

1. Ignore anything from her unless it pertains to your kids or finances until the D is done.

2. If you really want to and I don't think it's a good idea at this point you can validate her VERY briefly "I'm sorry you feel that way" - but then she'll respond and then you'll want to respond and it goes no where.