If you can afford it, I highly recommend speaking with a relationship coach such as the ones offered on this site. Anyone else you talk to, including me, sees everything through the limited scope of their own experience. Individuals generally aren’t aware of the differences in approach that the differences in your situation may require. The professionals, on the other hand, have experience with hundreds and even thousands of cases. They have seen most of their cases through to the end and can advise you with some confidence and authority.
