Interesting,

"show her you mean business"

Your drug use, lack of attachment and interest in the kids, demanding sex life, and porn kills your marriage.

So, she files for divorce, (to save herself? to save you? as a Last Resort Technique? (Not that it matters),

and you respond with exclusion and vindictiveness and asking her to leave the house. hmmmmm.....

This is your 180?

Believe half of what they say, right? I'd believe this:

Quote:
I hope you will think of the kids and their well-being from this day forward. Please, their entire future depends on how we handle this. I know you are really hurting right now - so am I. Don't let our hurt be at the children's expense. We must consider the kids every step of the way and also respect each other and the years we had. Neither of us are bad people. I am begging you to keep them your focus and how we are all going to get through this. I will always be there for you, just can't be there for you in the capacity you want me to.


vocabulary lesson,

Main Entry: am·i·ca·ble
Pronunciation: \ˈa-mi-kə-bəl\
Function: adjective
Etymology: Middle English, from Late Latin amicabilis
Date: 15th century
: characterized by friendly goodwill : peaceable