I will state the same thought I did some time ago... IMO you and your W spend way too much time together. I understand you both work odd schedules (as in not a 9-5 type job) but other than work or personal errands the two of you have NO space! You never get to recharge and just take a step back.

One thing you might really consider practicing is using "I" statements. That was a biggie for me but it is helpful!