I have not posted in a while and added a knew thread.
My ex has been fairly hostile as of late, trying to do things that will push my buttons.
I have tried to remain calm and continue my dark phase.
The latest incident happened on July 15. It was my daughter's 16th birthday. Ex had a little party for her with his family. At the end of the party he thought that he would have a little father/daughter time. His last present for my 16 year old daughter was a cigar, yes I said a cigar. He said they would celebrate and smoke a cigar together. OW also smoked with them and took pictures of the momentous occasion. These pictures were then posted on facebook.
I of course was livid. How stupid.... I talked to my daughter about the incident and she took the pictures off facebook. My daughter does not normally smoke nor has any intention of continuing this habit. Ex just knew it would get my goat.
All, and I mean all my family saw the picture. Ex and my daughter were posed like adolescents smoking for the first time with a "cool" type pose. I almost threw up.
What is he thinking.....?
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
