Strong men are men of much ACTION, and very few WORDS. And it is a tenet of DB to not TALK about your changes, but to live them out, quietly and confidently, in front of the runaway spouse....She's not looking for a chick best friend -- she's looking for a husband who will make a strong, principled stand to fight for his marriage, in my opinion.
i actually wanted to know the reverse of this. instead of asking what makes a woman attractive to a man .. this is the question that has been weighing on my mind.
the runaway wife wants a husband who will make a strong, principled stand to fight for his marriage. how does a man fight for his marriage yet still be detached?
what does the runaway husband want from his wife? there is a lot of advice to the men about showing emotional strength and standing up for his marriage. but the only advice i've seen to lbw is to stop whining, let go, and show him the door.
it just seems like the husbands are sending the message of "i'm not giving up on you". and the left behind wives are saying "just leave, if that's what you want."
i've read more threads about how the men are getting their runaway wives to turn around. and nothing on the wives getting their runaway husbands to turn around.
